9 Signs You’re Dealing With A Liar

In everyday interactions with people, you will likely come across those who are willing to be a liar in order to either get something they want or to cover up the real story. Sometimes they get caught in their lies, but other times they get aside with them if they’ve played the game long enough.

Maybe you have someone in your life who you have always had an uneasy feeling about, or you just can’t ever get a good read on them.

To find out if they may have secretly been pulling the wool over your eyes, take into consideration the following signs next time you think someone’s telling you a lie. Of course, these are red flags you’re dealing with a liar, but like anything else, there are exceptions. Take these signs as a general trend.

1. THEY NEVER MAKE EYE CONTACT WITH YOU.

Because liars actually feel guilty on the inside, they feel very uncomfortable when others look into their eyes. They feel as if the other person can see right through them, so they avoid long gazes with other people as much as possible. To catch someone in a lie, watch where their eyes go; do they look at the floor or look aside from you when you talk to them? If so, there’s a good chance they have something to hide, and they desperately want to keep it a secret.

2. THEY ACT NERVOUS AROUND YOU.

No matter if the lie involves something significant or just a minor detail, a liar will usually act jittery and anxious around the person they want to hide things from. They might talk faster to get the attention off of them, sweat profusely, blush or pace back and forth. With an experienced liar, they might not show any signs of guilt because they have gotten used to living in a lie. However, if you start grilling them with questions, they might eventually crack under the pressure.

3. THEY LOOK TROUBLED ABOUT SOMETHING.

Liars tend to not smile as much as people who live authentically and tell the truth no matter the consequences. Lying puts a huge strain on one’s conscience, and consequently makes one feel like they have two tons of bricks weighing down on them. This enormous pressure must come out somehow, and it usually reveals itself on the liar’s face. Watch the person in question’s facial expressions – you will probably notice that they don’t really show much emotion. The lies eventually eat people up on the inside, and their usual temperament is a telling sign of how they really feel.

4. THINGS ABOUT THEIR STORY JUST DON’T ADD UP.

After you hear their story, you intuitively feel that they have embellished major parts of it or just fabricated the entire thing altogether. For example, maybe you feel that your friend take off money from your wallet when you set down your purse to throw something aside.

While you can’t really prove it, you remember taking $100 out of the bank, and not being able to find $60 after hanging out with her. When you charge her of taking from you, she insists that someone else came up and took the money. But, why didn’t she ever tell you about this incident after it happened? Liars usually don’t have very good cover-ups for their stories, because they have to come up with a fictional tale on the fly.

5. THEY START GETTING DEFENSIVE.

If they had nothing to hide, why would they get angry about you interrogating them? People who tell the truth will act calm when put on the spot and will offer logical explanations about their behavior. Meanwhile, liars have to deal with all the turmoil they’ve created and must justify it to avoid caving under all the guilt. A liar will start to show signs of anger; they might ball their fists, cross their arms, have an enraged look in their eyes, or even make you feel inferior to boost their own ego.

Going on the defense almost always points to a person with ulterior motives.

6. THEY CHANGE THE SUBJECT.

Any mention of the lies they’ve told makes them feel uncomfortable, so they like to quickly take the attention off of themselves and bring up a more neutral topic. Usually, they make this quite obvious so that you will start to get frustrated, which makes their whole scheme even more fun to them. Look out for these sudden subject changes, because that’s your chance to really dig deep and ask them tough questions.

7. THEY START RAMBLING ALMOST UNCONTROLLABLY.

Most liars can’t help but twist their stories into some convoluted tale that makes no sense in the end.

They tell a couple of white lies but must cover these up with more lies in order to keep the “facts” straight when in reality it just makes it all less believable. Liars typically come up with complex stories in order to convince you that they are, in fact, telling the truth, but this marks a surefire sign of a liar in action.

8. THEY CAN’T SIT STILL.

Liars fidget a lot. That is because they want some distraction to take them aside from the seriousness of the conversation, so they play with their phones, tap their feet, move around in their chair, twist their hair, etc.

9. THEY CHANGE THEIR STORY LATER.

Even if they add or revoke small details, this further proves that their original story had no merit. They probably forgot most of the tale they told since it never really happened, which means they can try and confuse you more with additional fabrications. If they try to change their story, ask them what they initially told you – as they fumble over the details, you can rest assured that you have finally caught them in their own lie.

Comments:

Makima I never had a direct eye contact with someone because it makes me feel uncomfortable, looking at someone in the eyes reminds me that they’re actually looking straight at me and that makes me insecure.

Rachell Actually the first time I caught a liar was in 3rd grade when someone from behind me was tugging my hair. I looked back and saw everyone was busy because it was math so everyone was serious. I minded my own business until the tugging continued. I looked back and stared at everyone behind me. Everyone else was saying What did I do. But one said acted nervous and it was him, I never told anyone why I was staring at them.

I felt like a genius.

LilyAnother way I caught lying was when my friend would start moving around and start laughing, and avoiding eye contact and another thing is that they would stop talking instantly when I do my glare.

EmiliaEye Contact is a bit more “complex” simply because avoiding eye Contact is sometimes just a natural thing in some people like myself, recently I started seeing patterns in my eye contact behavior, I realized making steady eye contact makes me feel restless and uncomfortable. I would like to know more about this.

Rabia LockardOver reacting is a huge red flag to me. When someone gets really excited when you ask them a simple question. They are lying.

Source: powerofpositivity.com

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